The answer to this question is simple as our scholar father John Chrysostom said "The Law of the King [Fitha Negest] - A Christian must not go to a wedding {nuptial banquet] to clap his hand rhythmically or to dance with his feet; rather he shall eat in a quiet way as is proper to saint.  Chapter 11. or 446  “The Holy Scriptures were not given to us that we should enclose them in books, but that we should engrave them upon our hearts.” ―  St.  John Chrysostom