In all things we do, we must pray and seek God first. It is important to seek God’s will and not rely on your emotions. It is recommended to go a period of time without communicating to that person so you can clearly listen to God and know what that connection means. Is it just an admiration, is it meant for friendship, is it infatuation, or is it the will of God to begin a courtship? Let the next step be intentional and purposeful. The purpose is to be one in Christ through marriage and not to just fill an emotional void. A spiritual connection is solidified through God. If you have more questions, it is advisable to share these concerns with your confessional father.