Serve the Lord with fear, And rejoice with trembling.
Kiss the Son, lest He be angry.
Psalms 2:11
This Great Lent is considered the Holiest fast since our Lord Jesus Christ Himself had fasted it. During this Lent, we follow the example set by our Lord Jesus Christ, Who fasted on our behalf forty days and forty nights (Matt. 4: 2). Our Holy forefathers have taught and described this fast in many way. Some stated it is fast of transition. As Moses fasted for forty days and forty nights to secure his people's transition from the Law of conscience to that of the Tablet, So did Our Lord to bring about our transition from the Old Testament to the New One. Others called it a fast of blessing monasticism. By fasting it in complete seclusion, Our Lord blessed the life of celibacy which fathers like Elijah and St John the Baptist did live and others followed soon after. And mainly it is a fast of preparation and exemplary. Adam and Eve were chased out of the Garden of Eden because of their disobedience to God’s commandment and the need to quench their flesh. Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, who can do whatever He wills so just in His Word without undergoing ups and downs, has fasted to give a practical lesson to us on how to self control and overcome temptation.
In the Fetha Negest/the book of Kings/, fasting is defined as follows: "Fasting is abstinence from food, and is observed by man at certain times determined by law, to attain forgiveness of sins and much reward, obeying thus the one who fixed the law. Fasting (also) serves to weaken the force of concupiscence so that (the body) may obey the rational soul". Fasting could be also defined as a form of abstinence or minimization of carnal pleasures for the sake of spiritual development. During this fasting period, Christians abstain from alcoholic drink, meat and all animal products: meat, milk, butter and eggs. Only the seriously sick, Mothers in their early months of child bearing and children less than seven years of age are exempted from fasting. The rest are expected to fast with utmost commitment. Fasting is dated back to the Old Testament in which prophets had to fast seriously to communicate with God and the faithful had to do the same to avoid His wrath (Exodus 34:28; John 3:5-10).
Our Lord and Savior has done what a noble teacher does to his disciples. Rather than solely tell the disciples in words, He shows them practically what is expected of them/us to be holy. He showed us that fasting is a spiritual weapon to overcome and be victorious over the three cardinal Sins-greed, pomposity and monetary lust (Mat. 4:1-11).
The Tempter's (Devil's) statement
Type of Temptation
The Lord's Reaction (Statement)
Approach of overcoming the temptation
If you are the Son of God, Command that these stones become bread
Greed
Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God
Patience
If you are the Son of God, throw yourself down
Pomposity
You shall not tempt the Lord your God.
Meekness
I will give you if you will fall down and worship me
Excess Love of money
Away with you satan you shall worship the Lord your God, and Him only you shall serve
Reasonable `hatred' of excess riches.
In the above table, Our Lord Christ has set a living example to us how to overcome the temptations of the Devil through fasting. He has showed us practically that through fasting we could disentangle ourselves from the slavery of the unholy spirit (addiction/ bad behaviour/and e.t.c) [(Mat. 17:21, Mark.9:2)]. After overcoming the cardinal sins the bible tell us, " the devil left Him, and behold, Angels come and ministered to Him". So will they do to us if we overcome the temptations of satan following the Lord's example.
Beginning on the 25th of Sene and lasting until the 26th of Meskerem of the Ge’ez calendar is the Rainy Season or Zemene Kiremt. During this time we remember God’s provision of food to all creatures. As it’s written in the Psalms 147:8-9 “Who covers the heaven with clouds, who prepares rain for the earth, who makes grass to grow upon the mountains. He gives to the beast his food, and to the young ravens which cry.” The rainy season is symbolic to the age that human beings spend on earth. This season is sometimes referred to as winter. St Paul writes in 2nd Timothy 4:21 “Do your best to get here before winter.” During the winter season we see the farmer going through all hardships to prepare his farm during this season. He has faith that he will get adequate rainfall for his crops so he labors tirelessly during this season. This refers to our lives, our faith should be like the farmer--we must tirelessly labor on earth and have faith that God will provide. Our work, though, is for the heavenly kingdom. David in his Psalm 126:5-6 ties this meaning beautifully, “They that sow in tears shall reap in joy. He that goes forth and weeps, bearing precious seed, shall doubtless come again with rejoicing, bringing his sheaves with him.” Also our church teaches the formation of rain happens through the evaporation and condensation process. This was clearly stated by Aba Giorgis ze-Gasīcha around 14th century AD (G.C) in his famous book Se’atat, “He who contains the waters, scatters the thin fog. He raises the water from the lakes and brings it down from the heights of the sky.” All the readings of this season show how God provides for His creation.
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